![]() ![]() When you go to the website, you will see you have to make a login. The reason for this is because there is still a high mental correlation with those who are kinky to have a history of abuse. ![]() Like regular Facebook, isn’t really something to be afraid of, yet all kinky interactions should be treated mindfully. Those with fetishes or kinks aren’t necessarily a “bad guy” and just because you know what “fet life” is doesn’t make you part of the community. I believe it is important to note the individual experiences that happen while two or more people are engaging in sexual conversation or sexual exchanges. The reasons for sexual fetishes are often complex, and that is beyond the scope of our conversation here. Two people can be engaged in the same exact behavior (one partner getting off to the foot fetish – feeling that it is pleasurable and empowering, while for the other person it can be experienced as abusive or troubling (the other partner perhaps). Most people in the lifestyle are more commonly known as “kinky” or a “kinkster” instead of a fetishist. People who have a fetish for feet NEED the feet to be there to climax, for example. To our clients, we start out with the theory that sexual behavior is neither inherently negative nor pathological between consenting adults, unless shown to be otherwise.įun fact: A fetish is something you need to have in order to complete orgasm. We hold a sex-positive perspective at our practicee. We are going to talk about the Fetish Lifestyle – Fet Life. I use this specifically because I believe discussing what this is all about helps those who aren’t familiar with kink to get it a bit more.įor those of you that are BDSM pros, this may not be the post for you! It appears evidently NOT SAFE FOR WORK from the first moment you lay eyes on “Fet Life.” ![]() The back of the website is black and the headlines are in red. I immediately imagine the judgement and terror that they feel for asking and I feel for knowing.į is a website that is essentially known as “Facebook for Kinky people.” As a certified sex therapist, I often get asked “what is Fet Life?” ![]()
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